i have trouble in changing myself.

镜里容颜

people never cherish what they've already had until they lose it.
i hope myself to hate the life and be unsatisfy my present life. so i am unsatisfied with it.

hayden

hi,girl :
firstly, i think you should recognize the difference between the sense of hate and unsatisfaction.
hating sometimes will lead us to the world of loneliness and lacking of help. and if it's too much,we will be seperated from our friends and society. i think we should avoid this bad emotion before it comes into being or has been.
unsatisfaction is a matter that sometimes will help to reach your aim. be stricted with yourself and work hard,this unsatisfaction will change into a powerful magic which will push you through the darkness and finally realize your dream. but if it runs in a wrong way,or even it is connected with complaint,that will be bad and the situations will be totally different.
being unsatisfied with the fate and never saying die,showing kindness to everybody , that's the secrete of the changing.

巴布豆

it seems that all the person have this weakness,when they possese ,they don't cherish,but when they lose,they will regret what they have do,in fact ,I think this illness is the men have more rate more than women,specialties the couples.

紫色蝙蝠

what hayden said is very wonderfull,i am astonished by your analysis for hate and unsatisfaction.
that's right,the world need love not hate,also need unsatisfaction to make the world improved .if people always satisfy with what he has got,then he will lose the motivity to become better.everyone is a part of the society,the improvement of the society need the effort from every part of the society.